Monday, May 17, 2010

High Notes and Low Notes

My two beautiful children on Mother's Day!
We were lucky enough to have Kyle's mom and grandmother here over Mother's Day. Caleb LOVED all the attention he got from his grandma and great grandma (whom he calls "tutu", Hawaiian for grandma). We also had visits from Kyle's sister Amy and stepsister Stephanie, and on Mother's Day, we also welcomed Allison & Kerrin Scott and Caleb's "cousin" Jackson! With Gwen in the mix, we had a very celebratory Mother's Day . . . and the best thing? I didn't have to cook or clean!! Now THAT'S a Mother's Day gift! :o)
Caleb and "Tutu"

Caleb with Grandma
Despite the high notes of a grand Mother's Day, I am reminded of my mom who, as many of you know, suffers from dementia and can no longer grasp ideas like Mother's Day. My sister was able to spend the day with her down in California and it gives me some comfort to know how well she's being taken care of.
My mom on Mothers' Day
The other truly sad note of the day was via a phone call I received that my beloved God-brother Mark was home with hospice care and not expected to live much longer. After a protracted illness, his body just couldn't take the strain. My thoughts went to my wonderful God-mother Ann and how such a beautiful day could be darkened by such sad news. Mark held on for another few days and passed away last Wednesday night.
Life is full of high notes and low notes and last week was certainly evidence of that. Hold those you love tightly and never forget to tell them how much you love them!